Three area women start crisis nursery in Oklahoma City

 

Roughly a year ago, Jennifer Roberts couldn’t sleep after hearing the story of a child being abused in the Oklahoma City area.

She decided it was time to take action.

“I just asked what I could do. I wanted to do something different to help. There are great organizations out there that do great things, but there is a gap that needs to be filled.”

That’s when the OkCity Crisis Nursery was born.

Roberts combined forces with friends Kendra Cox and Lauren Langley to start the crisis nursery.

Cox and Langley are Yukon residents, while Roberts lives in Edmond.

“We have a heart for helping kids,” Langley said. “We knew we had to bring a crisis nursery to Oklahoma.”

The OkCity Crisis Nursery’s vision is to provide free and immediate care for children involved in a crisis situation. The mission is to improve the lives of young children by reducing trauma. The goal is to prevent child abuse and neglect in Oklahoma by providing a safe and nurturing environment of unconditional love.

“People don’t know what we are about, but they still have been reaching out,” Roberts said. “We want to provide a place where parents can take their kids with no questions asked. One of the questions people ask is what constitutes a crisis situation. Whether it’s domestic abuse or if a parent or parents need time to themselves, we will accept any children into the nursery. It doesn’t have to be an abuse situation.”

Another situation that Roberts, Cox and Langley want to highlight is mothers dealing with postpartum depression.

“It’s a very serious issue and we want those mothers that are dealing with postpartum depression to feel comfortable with coming and leaving their child or children with us and then going to do what they need to do to help themselves,” Roberts said.

The OkCity Crisis Nursery is open 24 hours, provides parent education and refers people, who are interested, to community agencies to get help. The nursery is designed to help parents or caregivers who are unable to provide safe shelter and care for children ages 0-7.

“We are not a day care, but a safe place,” Cox said. “We like to call ourselves the Four Seasons for kids. We are not a shelter. When people walk in and see the nursery, we want them to be like ‘wow’. We want it to create warm and fuzzy feelings and for the kids to be excited about coming to see us.”

In 2018, Department of Human Services received 80,598 reports of alleged child abuse and neglect in Oklahoma. There were 138,061 alleged victims and 15,951 confirmed victims. There were 4,955 children who left state custody and were successfully reunited with their biological families.

From left: Kendra Cox, Jennifer Roberts and Lauren Langley have started the first crisis nursery in Oklahoma called the OkCity Crisis Nursery. The new location is expected to open Feb. 1. Photo/Courtesy

“A lot of these parents are good parents, they just need help,” Roberts said. “We want them to bring their child or children to the crisis nursery and go and take care of what they need to take care of without having to turn to DHS. We want to give them a support system that otherwise they would not have. Our goal is to cut the numbers in half, but if we save at least one child, it is worth it.”

The OkCity Crisis Nursery is located at 229 NE 11th St. in Oklahoma City.

Roberts said she found the house as she was driving around the area looking for possible locations.

“I knew it was the right house when I walked in. It is the perfect location. It is right by the University of Oklahoma Children’s Hospital, so it is centrally located. The goal is to be up and running by Feb. 1.”

Langley said the nursery is not just for abused children, and there will be no questions asked.

“We aren’t going to ask any questions. This will be a no judgment place. We understand a crisis situation means something different to everyone. There will be an in-take form to fill out and that’s it. We have partnered with other crisis centers that will provide us with supplies and we will take some of their children into our nursery. We help each other out. We have all of the furniture and supplies, now it’s just getting it in there.”

The OkCity Crisis Nursery is funded by numerous corporate sponsors and donations. It will be staffed by volunteer teams and groups. All volunteers will undergo extensive background checks. To apply to be a volunteer, go to the crisis nursery website and fill out an application. The website is www.crisisnurseryokc.com

The Vanessa Behan Crisis Nursery is where Roberts said she got the idea to do a crisis nursery here in Oklahoma City. The Vanessa Behan Crisis Nursery is in Spokane and has been operating for 30 years.

The OkCity Crisis Nursery is the only crisis nursery in Oklahoma, but Roberts said they want to build more in the Oklahoma City area and build at least one in the Tulsa area.

The Oklahoma City-based nursery can house 20 children over night and 25-30 during the day. Since Roberts, Cox and Langley started the crisis nursery, they have been using their homes.

People can find the OkCity Crisis Nursery on Facebook or they can be reached by phone at 979-0706.

“Our motto is, ‘Children are loved, parents are supported,’” Roberts said. “We have a good relationship with DHS. We recently met with them and they loved the idea. Our goal is to prevent kids from going into the system. We care about kids and their families.”

 

28 Comments

  1. Terry Hutchison on January 12, 2019 at 12:37 pm

    This is so amazing! Three of the best women, I call, my friends! Can’t wait to be a part of this team. God has great plans for the OKC Crisis Nursery.

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:10 pm

      We can’t wait either! Love you!

  2. Linda Meth on January 12, 2019 at 6:34 pm

    I would love to volunteer at your crisis center. I live in Guthrie OK. I am a retired NICU RN. I retired 5 years ago. I am 75 years old, and I can still rock little ones. The last hospital I worked at was Integris Canadian Valley. I also worked at Baptist and before that The Rennaissance Woens’s Hospital in Edmond. I can give you references if needed. Looking forward to hearing from you.

    Linda Meth

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 8:59 pm

      We would love your help! You can go to the website and fill out a contact form. Soon we will send a follow up link with an application. Thank you so much!

  3. Kim sow on January 12, 2019 at 9:10 pm

    I would love to help in anyway i can. My husband an i have craZy big hearts an would volunteer weekends to help
    If needed.

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:02 pm

      Awesome! Please fill out a contact form on the website and we’ll send a follow up link with more info soon. Thank you!

  4. Mali on January 12, 2019 at 10:21 pm

    Will you take donations such as baby clothes and such your child has out grown, extra blankets high chairs ect?

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:00 pm

      Yes. Our homes are completely full right now but if you’ll hold them until we’re in we’d be happy to get hem from you. Thank you!

  5. Laura Wijkowski on January 13, 2019 at 8:12 am

    Check out Noyes Children’s Home in St. Joseph, Missouri for more information, resources and ideas! They have been operating for 100 years as private placement and also work with Children’s Services 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 Congratulations!

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:02 pm

      Thank you for this information! Doing so now.

  6. Pat on January 13, 2019 at 8:35 am

    I love this idea. I would volunteer every day if I lived in Oklahoma. My heart aches for children. You 3 women are awesome.

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:03 pm

      Thank you!

  7. Patricia Lewis on January 13, 2019 at 9:07 am

    I would like to volunteer my time to help your cause, I think this is an awesome idea, wish someone thought of it earlier. I have worked in the court system for 15 years and recently accepted a position with the Cleveland County Sheriff’s Department. I have two children of my own. I look forward to hear from you. Thank you for your time.

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:05 pm

      Thank you! We are just happy to start it now, but we agree. We’d love to have you and your kids volunteer if they’d like. Please fill out a contact form on the website and we’ll follow up.

  8. Holly Davis on January 13, 2019 at 12:06 pm

    I live in Tulsa and am a Nanny for a family. When you open a Tulsa location I would be interested in helping out somehow! I think this is a wonderful idea and you ladies are angels for doing it!

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:08 pm

      Follow for updates! We’d love your help when that time comes. Thank you!

  9. Gayle Gregory on January 13, 2019 at 8:00 pm

    What a wonderful endeavor! I think you 3 are loving, kind and compassionate women!! Thank you for your love of children and caring enough to jump right in and help solve a huge problem! May God’s abundance bless you all!!

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:08 pm

      Thank you so much!

  10. Kari Smith on January 14, 2019 at 12:12 am

    Let me know how I can help! I have an “empty nest” and am so excited about what you are doing!

    • Kendra Allen on January 15, 2019 at 9:09 pm

      Thank you! If you’d like to you can fill out a contact form on our website and we follow up soon.

  11. Lisa Kirkland on January 16, 2019 at 9:12 am

    Are you accepting volunteers?

  12. Andrea Andersen on January 17, 2019 at 6:33 am

    Wonderful program….very inspiring!

  13. Kristin N kiggins on January 18, 2019 at 2:43 pm

    This makes my heart smile!! For women to have a place to turn for help without the fear of being judged or possibly having their child taken away… is so needed! What you are doing is such a beautiful thing! God bless.

  14. Karma Pearson on May 23, 2019 at 5:20 pm

    I would like to volunteer. I have 18 years experience as a NICU/Well baby nurse. My daughter (she is 11) would absolutely love to volunteer also.

  15. Sherry McNew on June 29, 2019 at 10:36 pm

    Hello my mane is Sherry. September 6 2017 my sweet great neice was beaten to death. She was 2 years old. I wish a place like yours could have saved her. Maybe if her mother would have had this resource then there wouldn’t have been a fear of the I told you so or embarrassment. I don’t know. There are a million maybe’s , what is, and I wishes. Anyways I’m extremely glad your here now. I was wondering if I could donate some stuffed animals and toys for the baby’s to play with and take home in Jamie’s name. Please contact me at any time at [email protected]

  16. Amanda Schultz on January 5, 2020 at 9:34 pm

    I used a crisis nursery in Minneapolis Minnesota when I first moved there from Pennsylvania with my 14 month old son and found out I was pregnant shortly after it was a truly amazing service that I believe every single state and major city should have I was sent to a shelter in Fargo ND where they don’t have one I have a close friend willing to invest in me to open a business and I’d love to find a way to open one here and maybe other places in time I have no idea how to even begin to do this but it holds a special place in my heart they where so kind so helpful and took amazing care of my baby boy while I had to sleep in my car some nights but I felt better knowing my lil boy was safe and they connected me with reasources to help me thru this hard time of crisis in my life and I’m now omw to being on me feet and had they not of been there I may have lost my son in the system due to homelessness it’s been hard but I wanna find a way to give back and do good and this is such a amazing service and rare in pa I never heard of anything like it I’m looking for some info I obviously won’t be able to do it right now but I want to begin to do my research and prepare a plan for possible investors I know any suggestions or help please email me [email protected] thank you and God bless those who do this !!

  17. Linda Bracjen on February 3, 2021 at 11:27 pm

    I would like to help. Isolated right now but I will make a $ contribution. Please let me know where to send a check.

  18. Linda Bracken on February 3, 2021 at 11:29 pm

    Would like to help. Please advise where to send check.

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